Hey bro,

I've got a funny story about my son I wanted to share and hope you find some value in it.  

I was out at one of the only two bars in my tiny town a couple weeks ago.

Population? Around 2,500. Most of the single women? Not exactly my type. 

But that night, I spotted one.
Cute. Fun energy. Totally my type.
Didn’t get to talk to her though — my buddy wanted to leave early. My son was my DD, so we piled into the truck and bounced.

On the way out, I told my buddy — half-joking, half-not — “I’m gonna f*ck that girl.”

My son heard me and looked like he just found out Santa wasn’t real.
“Dad… how do you have that kind of confidence? You didn’t even talk to her.”

I just smiled and said, “I just know.”

That was it.

Fast forward a few weeks, I went out again. Same place, same small-town vibe. But this time, I did talk to someone — cute girl, easy chemistry, lots of laughing, real connection.

Good times.
It was getting late, so I texted my son to come scoop me again. He walks into t...

Hey brother,

One of the biggest struggles I see men face is finding balance within themselves—the balance between:

• Masculinity and femininity.
• Being a good man and a bad boy.
• Being a provider and a rockstar in the bedroom.
• Making love and ravaging a woman.

Most guys suppress one side or the other. They either lean too far into being the nice guy—afraid to take risks, afraid to lead, afraid to be too much—or they overcompensate, trying to be the ultra-dominant alpha male with no depth, no vulnerability, no heart.

Neither extreme works.

Balance is everything.

I’ve always believed this to be true. As a Libra, it’s wired into me. And after working with men for years, I’ve seen time and time again that when a man neglects any part of himself, it always comes back to bite him in the ass.

And this doesn’t just apply to men—women feel this same internal conflict.

I was talking to a woman I met online recently who actually understands this concept, and it was a breath of fresh ai...

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Using the 'traditional dating model' as the way to meet, attract, and date women is dead, yet so many guys continue to use it.

Most men don’t take into account how much society has changed. With online dating, social media, and the ability to swipe through hundreds of people in seconds, dating has become harder than ever for men—while women have more options than they know what to do with.

Being a “good man” isn’t enough anymore. Being in shape, having a solid career, and working hard? That’s just the baseline. If you want to stand out, you need an edge. You need to be the guy who separates himself from the pack.

In this new recording, I sit down with a client who has all the fundamentals in place. He’s educated, successful, in great physical shape, and prioritizes his mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. He’s even dating multiple women every week.

But something is still missing. And that something is what will give him an unfair advantage over other men.

Listen ...

Stop Putting Women on a Pedestal: 

If you’re struggling with confidence, feeling happy, or finding genuine connections, chances are you’ve fallen into the trap of pedestalizing women—or maybe even other men. This habit of inflating someone’s worthwhile diminishing your own is a confidence killer. It distorts your self-image and leaves you stuck in a cycle of comparison and self-doubt.

The Pedestal Trap

Many guys make the mistake of placing women, especially attractive ones, on a pedestal. They convince themselves that these women are inherently better—more valuable, more desirable—than they are.

But it doesn’t stop there. If you’re putting women on a pedestal, you’re probably doing the same with men you admire. Maybe it’s the guy with the perfect body, the entrepreneur with financial success, or the charismatic dude who seems to attract every woman in the room. You see what they have, compare it to what you lack, and feel inferior.

This mindset isn’t just harmful—it’s completely f...

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As driven men, we often pride ourselves on setting goals and chasing our dreams with laser-like focus. We’re told that if we work hard enough, hustle long enough, and sacrifice enough, the success we desire will be ours. But what happens when that focus turns into obsession? What if chasing the outcome is actually what's holding you back from everything you want, whether it’s in your career, with women, or financial freedom?

It’s time to rethink the way we approach success and stop being outcome-oriented.

The Trap of Outcome-Driven Thinking

When you’re solely focused on the outcome—whether it’s making more money, landing the perfect job, or getting the girl—you give your power away. Why? Because outcomes are largely beyond your control. Chasing after a specific result puts you at the mercy of external circumstances: other people’s decisions, the market, or timing.

Here’s the cold truth: You can’t control how a woman feels about you, whether your boss recognizes your h...

Hey brother,

If you struggle with being a nice guy, attracting and connecting with the women you want most, or living life on your terms, this is a must-read.

If you have been following my teachings for any amount of time, you've seen me as the guy who's always out having a wild time with beautiful women—a ladies' man, if you will. You've heard me talk about the importance of mindset. While that’s always been part of my life, there’s a deeper aspect to what has always made me so attractive and magnetic to women—something that a lot of guys simply don't understand or see unless you work with me in person.

The secret lies in my upbringing. There are three major unpleasant experiences I went through during my childhood that influenced my dating life as well as my ability to live authentically on my terms. In this email, I am going to share these three experiences along with ten life lessons that had a profound impact on my ability to live a life most guys could only dream of.

The firs...

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In my webinar I hosted last weekend, a guy asked me about dating as an older man. He said that everyone says it's a lot more difficult than when you are younger.

My response: That couldn't be farther from the truth. If anything, as an older man, it is even easier. Older women are more mature and know what they want and don't want, which means they are less likely to play games. 

Here's the thing you need to understand, just because everyone is saying XYZ and you keep hearing it everywhere, doesn't mean it's true, especially with all the garbage and lies floating around the internet nowadays. As men, we never want to buy into the illusory truth effect, which is the tendency to believe false information to be correct after repeated exposure. 

Always remember that whatever you believe to be true, IS...

• If you buy into the idea that dating as an older man is hard, it is.
• If you buy into the idea that dating as an older man is fun and easy, it is.

It is, what you say it ...

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In today's digital age, platforms like OnlyFans, pornography, and transactional sex are more accessible than ever. While these activities might seem harmless at first, they can have profound negative impacts on men’s mental and emotional health. Over the years, I've worked with many guys who have struggled with these issues, some even developing addictions that severely affected their lives. If this resonates with you, know that you are not alone. 

Understanding the grave dangers associated with these behaviors, and knowing the root causes, is the first step towards a healthier lifestyle and is exactly what I will explain in this post. 

OnlyFans, Pornography Addiction, and Mental Health

Frequent consumption of pornography can lead to addiction-like behaviors with serious consequences for mental well-being. Here’s what recent research reveals:

1. Brain Changes: Excessive porn use can alter brain structure and function, particularly in areas responsible for decision-ma

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In a world where we often seek instant gratification formulas and step-by-step guides for success, it can be easy to forget the magic of spontaneity, especially when it comes to relationships, attracting women, and enjoying our lives. So many guys are fixated on the mechanics of courtship: "What should I say?" "How do I get her number?" These questions, while common, miss the essence of what truly creates the experiences we wish to have. 

Beyond the Formula

When working with guys striving to improve their dating lives, I noticed a recurring theme: an obsession with figuring out the exact steps to win someone over. This approach, however, is flawed. Relationships and human connection are not mechanical processes but organic, spontaneous adventures. Instead of following a rigid plan, allow yourself to be present and experience the magic of the moment.

The Magic of the Moment

When you are genuinely engaged with someone, the experience itself becomes the focal point. You ...

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In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of our thoughts. The constant chatter in our minds often leads us down a path of negativity. This applies to our past and present. We could have 1 thousand amazing experiences happen in our past, but our minds will automatically default back to the one negative experience we had and ignore the thousand.

But what if we could rise above these thoughts and take control of our mental landscape? Here are 6 ways that will help you break out of negative thoughts.

1. Recognizing and Overcoming Negative Thoughts

The key to overcoming negative thoughts is not to fight them, but to rise above them. When a negative thought creeps into your mind, acknowledge it without judgment. Understand that you are not defined by these thoughts. By recognizing and distancing yourself from them, you can begin to change your mindset effortlessly.

2.  The Power of Presence

There's something magical about being present and a...