The Secret to Becoming the Man Women Crave

Hey brother,

One of the biggest struggles I see men face is finding balance within themselves—the balance between:

• Masculinity and femininity.
• Being a good man and a bad boy.
• Being a provider and a rockstar in the bedroom.
• Making love and ravaging a woman.

Most guys suppress one side or the other. They either lean too far into being the nice guy—afraid to take risks, afraid to lead, afraid to be too much—or they overcompensate, trying to be the ultra-dominant alpha male with no depth, no vulnerability, no heart.

Neither extreme works.

Balance is everything.

I’ve always believed this to be true. As a Libra, it’s wired into me. And after working with men for years, I’ve seen time and time again that when a man neglects any part of himself, it always comes back to bite him in the ass.

And this doesn’t just apply to men—women feel this same internal conflict.

I was talking to a woman I met online recently who actually understands this concept, and it was a breath of fresh air.

Here’s what she said:

Her: You're an incredible representation of the male species. I mean, damn…

Me: Ha, well, thank you! I like that you embrace both—the good girl and the bad girl within you.

Her: I find it difficult to make myself be strictly one way or the other. I’m not—and never will be—just one side of the coin. I embrace both, but I’ve found that to be extremely intimidating to most men. Is it really that intimidating to have a girl capable of both? At least with most 'mortal' men, it seems to be.

Me: I guess I don’t fall into the category of ‘mortal’ men. lol We live in a dualistic reality where both co-exist. To ignore or suppress one or the other is insanity, yet most have been conditioned to do so. I find it extremely rare—and sexy—when a woman embraces both.

Her: No, you don’t fit in that category! It’s difficult to find a man who is secure enough with himself to handle both sides of me. But it’s not that I’m difficult to handle. Women like me are fully capable of and desire to submit—if they are led properly. Most men, in my experience, either have an overwhelming need to be in control, or they’re too soft to take any risks at all.

It’s a delicate, delicious balance.

And let’s be real… at the end of the day, I want a man who fcks me so good that I have no desire to be with another man. I want a man I can’t keep my hands or mouth off of. Lol.*

Me: I couldn’t agree more.

When you fully embody both your light and dark sides, you’re finally in touch with your authentic self… and that’s when you are truly free.

I appreciate that you’re not trying to hide the parts of yourself that are raw, dark, naughty, and untamed—just like you’re not trying to suppress the side of you that’s soft, proper, beautiful, and feminine.

That’s rare.

Her: I'd love to meet up. Send me a text so we can talk more. [Her number]

🔥 This is what most guys don’t understand.

Women don’t want a man who is just nice or just dominant. They want a man who is both—who can lead yet surrender, who can be tender yet rough, who makes her feel safe but also sets her on fire.

The problem is that most guys are afraid to step into their full selves—the part of them that is both masculine and feminine. They either suppress their sexual edge or suppress their softer side because they’re afraid of looking weak.

But true strength is integration.

The more you embrace every part of yourself—the leader, the lover, the protector, the magician, the primal beast—the more magnetic you become.

And when you do, everything in your life shifts. Women feel it. They crave it. And they want to surrender to you—not because you’re forcing them to, but because they can’t help but trust you completely.

🔥 Here’s the real takeaway:

Most men are out of sync with themselves, and it’s killing their ability to live the life they truly want—and preventing them from attracting the kind of women they truly desire.

• If you’re too soft, she won’t respect you.
• If you’re too rigid, she won’t feel safe with you.
• If you suppress your primal, dominant side, she’ll crave it elsewhere.
• If you lack emotional depth, she’ll lose interest.

But when you own all parts of yourself—your strength, your softness, your leadership, your passion, your faults, your fears, your intensity, your badass—you become the kind of man who doesn’t chase women.

You attract them in effortlessly.

And this isn’t just about women—this affects every aspect of your life. Your career, your confidence, your friendships, your success.

🔥Are You Ready to Become That Guy?

This isn’t for everyone. But if you’re done feeling stuck, if you’re tired of second-guessing yourself, if you know deep down that you’re capable of more—but just haven’t been able to fully step into it yet—then this is your moment.

This is about complete transformation—mastering your confidence, your presence, your ability to lead, attract, and command respect without forcing it. When you get this right, everything in your life changes—your relationships, your career, your success, your entire identity as a man.

But I’m not here to sell you a dream. I’m here to make it real.

If you’re ready to finally break through and own every part of yourself, email me at [email protected].

Tell me:
🔥 What’s going on in your life right now?
🔥 What are you struggling with?
🔥 Why is NOW the time for you to master this part of your life?

This isn’t some cookie-cutter program. This is custom-tailored coaching, designed specifically for you—to get you the results you want in the fastest, most direct way possible.

But let me be clear: I don’t work with just anyone.

I work with men who are serious about change. Men who are ready to put in the work, face their fears, and step into their full potential. If that’s you—if you feel that fire inside and know you’re ready—then reach out. Let’s make it happen.

~Cory Skyy