STOP WAITING UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE
This is the most important thing a man can do in 2025.

I’ve lived 44 years on this planet.
And if life has taught me anything—it’s that life itself is one of our greatest teachers.
But here’s the thing:

If you don’t listen to life... life will wake you the fuck up.

It’ll start as a whisper.
A little nudge.
Something feels off.
You feel tired. Disconnected. Distant from your purpose.
You know something isn’t right… but you ignore it.

Until life slaps you.
Then breaks you.
Then strips you bare until you have no choice but to listen.

I know this because that’s exactly what happened to me.

I lost everything.
My business collapsed.
My health went to shit.
My family relationships crumbled.
I hit a rock bottom I truly didn’t know if I’d recover from.

But I did.
And I came back stronger.
Clearer.
More grounded in who I actually am—beyond all the bullshit I was chasing.

And you know what I realized?

That breakdown was the best thing that ever happened t...

THE LIES WE LIVE WITH – Why Most Men Stay in Comfortable Prisons

Hey bro,

Most men today are serving life sentences…
Without ever stepping foot in a cell.

We wake up in a box.
Drive to work in a box.
Stare at a screen in another box.
Then come home and escape into yet another—
Netflix, porn, weed, booze, junk food, scrolling—
Whatever keeps us numb.

We don’t remember the last time we felt alive.

Not “fine.”
Not “getting by.”
Alive.

Because we’re not living.
We’re surviving.

We wear masks so long we forget they’re masks.
We become who the world wants us to be—
While forgetting who we are.

And it’s not your fault.
You were taught this.

Taught to be a good boy.
To follow the rules.
To never question.
To suppress your feelings and serve the system.

You were promised freedom through money, success, women…

But ended up in an invisible cage.

And that’s where it all starts. But it is crucial to recognize that there are severe consequences for our actions and inactions...

Because w...

EVERY MAN HAS THEIR BREAKING POINT: A STORY ABOUT SLOW DEATH IN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

I used to think I was strong.

That no matter what life threw at me—I could handle it. That I’d always land on my feet.

But I had no idea how much one relationship… one lie you keep telling yourself… can slowly eat you alive.

It started when I split with the mother of my first son. He was two years old. I thought we’d figure it out—two parents, doing our best.

But when things didn't work out, she moved in with her parents, and everything changed. They only let me see my son when it was “convenient.” I was treated like an outsider. A nuisance. A burden.

I fought in court for a year—$30,000 in legal fees—just for the right to be a father half the time. 

The courts made me feel like a visitor in my own son’s life. Like I had to prove, over and over again, that I deserved to be their father. One of the hardest pills to swallow was realizing how broken the family court system really is—especially for ...

Hey bro,

I've got a funny story about my son I wanted to share and hope you find some value in it.  

I was out at one of the only two bars in my tiny town a couple weeks ago.

Population? Around 2,500. Most of the single women? Not exactly my type. 

But that night, I spotted one.
Cute. Fun energy. Totally my type.
Didn’t get to talk to her though — my buddy wanted to leave early. My son was my DD, so we piled into the truck and bounced.

On the way out, I told my buddy — half-joking, half-not — “I’m gonna f*ck that girl.”

My son heard me and looked like he just found out Santa wasn’t real.
“Dad… how do you have that kind of confidence? You didn’t even talk to her.”

I just smiled and said, “I just know.”

That was it.

Fast forward a few weeks, I went out again. Same place, same small-town vibe. But this time, I did talk to someone — cute girl, easy chemistry, lots of laughing, real connection.

Good times.
It was getting late, so I texted my son to come scoop me again. He walks into t...

Hey brother,

One of the biggest struggles I see men face is finding balance within themselves—the balance between:

• Masculinity and femininity.
• Being a good man and a bad boy.
• Being a provider and a rockstar in the bedroom.
• Making love and ravaging a woman.

Most guys suppress one side or the other. They either lean too far into being the nice guy—afraid to take risks, afraid to lead, afraid to be too much—or they overcompensate, trying to be the ultra-dominant alpha male with no depth, no vulnerability, no heart.

Neither extreme works.

Balance is everything.

I’ve always believed this to be true. As a Libra, it’s wired into me. And after working with men for years, I’ve seen time and time again that when a man neglects any part of himself, it always comes back to bite him in the ass.

And this doesn’t just apply to men—women feel this same internal conflict.

I was talking to a woman I met online recently who actually understands this concept, and it was a breath of fresh ai...

Hey bro,

Using the 'traditional dating model' as the way to meet, attract, and date women is dead, yet so many guys continue to use it.

Most men don’t take into account how much society has changed. With online dating, social media, and the ability to swipe through hundreds of people in seconds, dating has become harder than ever for men—while women have more options than they know what to do with.

Being a “good man” isn’t enough anymore. Being in shape, having a solid career, and working hard? That’s just the baseline. If you want to stand out, you need an edge. You need to be the guy who separates himself from the pack.

In this new recording, I sit down with a client who has all the fundamentals in place. He’s educated, successful, in great physical shape, and prioritizes his mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. He’s even dating multiple women every week.

But something is still missing. And that something is what will give him an unfair advantage over other men.

Listen ...

Stop Putting Women on a Pedestal: 

If you’re struggling with confidence, feeling happy, or finding genuine connections, chances are you’ve fallen into the trap of pedestalizing women—or maybe even other men. This habit of inflating someone’s worthwhile diminishing your own is a confidence killer. It distorts your self-image and leaves you stuck in a cycle of comparison and self-doubt.

The Pedestal Trap

Many guys make the mistake of placing women, especially attractive ones, on a pedestal. They convince themselves that these women are inherently better—more valuable, more desirable—than they are.

But it doesn’t stop there. If you’re putting women on a pedestal, you’re probably doing the same with men you admire. Maybe it’s the guy with the perfect body, the entrepreneur with financial success, or the charismatic dude who seems to attract every woman in the room. You see what they have, compare it to what you lack, and feel inferior.

This mindset isn’t just harmful—it’s completely f...

Hey brother,

As driven men, we often pride ourselves on setting goals and chasing our dreams with laser-like focus. We’re told that if we work hard enough, hustle long enough, and sacrifice enough, the success we desire will be ours. But what happens when that focus turns into obsession? What if chasing the outcome is actually what's holding you back from everything you want, whether it’s in your career, with women, or financial freedom?

It’s time to rethink the way we approach success and stop being outcome-oriented.

The Trap of Outcome-Driven Thinking

When you’re solely focused on the outcome—whether it’s making more money, landing the perfect job, or getting the girl—you give your power away. Why? Because outcomes are largely beyond your control. Chasing after a specific result puts you at the mercy of external circumstances: other people’s decisions, the market, or timing.

Here’s the cold truth: You can’t control how a woman feels about you, whether your boss recognizes your h...

Hey brother,

If you struggle with being a nice guy, attracting and connecting with the women you want most, or living life on your terms, this is a must-read.

If you have been following my teachings for any amount of time, you've seen me as the guy who's always out having a wild time with beautiful women—a ladies' man, if you will. You've heard me talk about the importance of mindset. While that’s always been part of my life, there’s a deeper aspect to what has always made me so attractive and magnetic to women—something that a lot of guys simply don't understand or see unless you work with me in person.

The secret lies in my upbringing. There are three major unpleasant experiences I went through during my childhood that influenced my dating life as well as my ability to live authentically on my terms. In this email, I am going to share these three experiences along with ten life lessons that had a profound impact on my ability to live a life most guys could only dream of.

The firs...

Hey bro,

In my webinar I hosted last weekend, a guy asked me about dating as an older man. He said that everyone says it's a lot more difficult than when you are younger.

My response: That couldn't be farther from the truth. If anything, as an older man, it is even easier. Older women are more mature and know what they want and don't want, which means they are less likely to play games. 

Here's the thing you need to understand, just because everyone is saying XYZ and you keep hearing it everywhere, doesn't mean it's true, especially with all the garbage and lies floating around the internet nowadays. As men, we never want to buy into the illusory truth effect, which is the tendency to believe false information to be correct after repeated exposure. 

Always remember that whatever you believe to be true, IS...

• If you buy into the idea that dating as an older man is hard, it is.
• If you buy into the idea that dating as an older man is fun and easy, it is.

It is, what you say it ...