Testimonial - Steve - COACHING

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I was just going through a few emails I sent out last year and one of them was a really kick a** story that I wrote up about Steve and wanted to share it with you again. There are a lot of great lessons to be learned in this story and if nothing else this guy is definitely an inspiration to all of us.

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A while back I was out with Steve, one of my clients that I have been working with for a while, and we went out to a small dance club.  It was a good night; within minutes of getting there he had several girls dancing up on him just having a good time. Nothing really out of the norm for him since after working with me having women all over him was just a regular thing.

After about an hour I decided to walk out and get some fresh air so I grabbed Steve and went outside. I saw a few cute girls standing over at a table near the bar so we went up and positioned ourselves next to them and within minutes I was talking to one of the girls and Steve was talking to one of the other ones. We were laughing joking around just getting to know one another.

Steve was behind me talking to his girl so I wasn't really paying too much attention to what was going on. After about 15 minutes of talking to my girl, I turned around and saw the girl Steve was talking straddling him and making out intensely. Again, No big deal - just another day in paradise.

What was really unique and funny about this situation was the girl I was talking to was getting really pissed off at me because I wouldn't tell her what I did for work. She was extremely persistent and wanted to know. I kept telling her what I did but just in a roundabout way and told her things like;

• I'm a dating/lifestyle consultant
• I help guys get what they want
• I change people’s perception of what is possible
• Etc...

The more time that went on, the more pissed she got. The problem was that she wanted to put me in a box and give me a standard job title like “I’m an attorney” or “I’m a fireman” etc...   The problem is nothing about what I do is an in the box kind of job.

Eventually, Steve overheard our conversation and, even though he was consumed in his situation, quickly realized how pissed she was getting. This was the funny part:  he peeked his head out from around his girl (the girl straddling him) and yells out:

Hello!?!?! This is what he does; he teaches guys how to do this!!!!!

Then she looks at me with a blank stare and says: “Oh!”  Moments later, as she asked me a couple more questions about my business and her energy had shifted radically. She started getting closer to me started passionately making out with me for the rest of the night.

Again, this is what I consider just an average night, or good times.

Before Steve and I met, a night like this was completely outside of his reality. He was just your average nice guy that got dates by chance. Now beautiful women approach him everywhere he goes and having insane and totally random experiences like this have just become a normal thing in his life. 

Here is the kicker

When I met Steve for the first time I honestly had no idea how I was going to help him because I had never worked with a guy like him before. You see, Steve is a quadriplegic and in a wheelchair. He was in a car accident about 25 years ago and since then he had been doing everything in his power just to live a normal life.  Up to that point in my own life I don’t think I had ever even talked to a guy in a wheelchair, not because I didn’t want to, but just because I was never around anyone in a chair.

Even though he was in a wheelchair, he already had a lot going for him. He was positive, social and confident in his business life but he felt there was still something missing in his life.  He contacted me because he wanted more choice with beautiful women in his life. In our first session Steve told me he wanted to date multiple women at one time.

Even though Steve was in a wheelchair, I made sure I did not let that affect my belief that I could help him become great with women. I looked beyond his physical limitations and focused on his mindset which is the core of my teaching.  I kept telling myself that I was no different than him and if I could have it so could he. I worked with him for about 6 months.

Now he has developed a powerful/unshakable s*xual confidence that attracts women to him from across any venue. He lives in the moment and through his powerful eye contact and presence he has created that edge that brings out a woman's deepest desires. He now lives a life that most guys would only dream of.  Amazingly, guys have become jealous of him and he even has guys coming up to him telling him that they wish they could be like him.  One guy even asked him where they could get a wheelchair because that is how they thought he was attracting all of the women. 

I can assure you; the attraction had nothing to do with the wheelchair.  If you think you have it hard - think again. This guy has proven that anything is possible if you want it bad enough. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to work with Steve. I now consider him a good friend of mine and every time we get together we are always having a blast together. He created a lifestyle that most guys would dream of and so can you.

I remember the last party he had; he invited 7 of the different women he was seeing. Imagine that? What would you do if you were seeing 7 different women and invited them all to the same party and had each one of them fighting to be with you? Trust me, it is an amazing feeling and there is NOTHING else on this planet that can give a man the feelings I am talking about here. 

The only question you need to ask yourself is:  “what is stopping you from having what you want?”

Till next time!

Your friend,

PS: If you are interested in coaching, feel free to email me at: cory@skyylifestyles.com. I'd be happy to get on the phone with you to see what programs we have available that would help you reach your goals.

"It doesn't matter how you look at it, being in control of your dating & s*x life is one of the most important parts to a man’s life. Choosing to invest your time and money into something that will change your life forever is priceless".