Testimonial Chris, San Francisco - COACHING

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I spent most of my twenties as a typical computer geek.   My days consisted of playing video games and watching TV to pass the time.   I convinced myself that I was happy with this life, but I was fooling myself.   I knew something was missing.   My confidence wasn't very good, I was a news junkie, which made me a very cynical person, and I couldn't find a girl for the life of me. 

I have had many crushes on different girls but always got my heart broken in the end.   It had gotten so bad at one point that I went into a semi-depression.   I was simply not good at understanding and dealing with girls, and it frustrated the hell out of me.   Never in a million years would I have thought that someone out there could teach this stuff, but I found him.   Not to sound too dramatic, but Cory literally changed the way I looked at the world; or rather, he brought out the natural man inside of me.   It wasn't merely about women, though; it was about changing the way I lived. In blunt terms, I needed to get a life.

Throughout the months working with Cory and his program, I became more confident and more of a leader, and I also developed a self-respect for myself that I had never had before.   In turn, people around me began to respect me.   Co-workers treated me differently, and girls who hadn't shown any interest before all of a sudden had crushes on me.   Even cashiers at the grocery store, who didn't even know me, showed me respect—simply because of my mindset and how I carried myself. 

I hadn't kissed a girl since high school, some fifteen years ago. But now women were looking at me differently, and I understood them on a whole new level. This new understanding was exciting to me, and now that I have several women in my life, I can honestly say that I have lived more in the last year than I have in my entire life.

The cool part is that since these teachings are about improving your own self, it helps all aspects of life. Whether it’s with business, friendship, family, relationships, on and on. Because there is one common thread in all of those things: You.

I remember one of my breakthroughs several months ago.   As I said, it had been fifteen years since I kissed or had sex with a girl. I was going out to meet this girl at a really nice club in the city.   I had never done anything like that before.   It was me, a girl I just met, and four of her friends.   I liked that ratio.   Stepping out of your comfort zone and constantly pushing yourself to experience new things is a key aspect to becoming great.   This night was full of me pushing my comfort zone, almost by the hour.   Within forty-five minutes of entering the club, I was dancing and making out with the girl I went with.   For the next several hours I had the time of my life.   I was completely in the moment, so details of the night are blurry, but the overall memory and feeling from the night will stay with me forever.   I was practically a born-again virgin, but that streak ended on that night.   I remember driving home the next morning, just smiling to myself and knowing that this was merely the beginning of my new life.

What I want to share with you is the impact Cory Skyy had on my life. This is not just about picking up women and is certainly not about learning pickup lines or any kind of routines. What I learned is how to feel more comfortable in my own skin, how to have more fun, and how to be a better man. What that meant to my confidence and the way that other people perceive me is very profound. But let me explain to you how this happened.

I started from a point where I did not have any confidence in my ability to attract a great woman. I was a successful business consultant, and as such I did not have any problems interacting with people, but still whenever I had to talk to a woman I found attractive I froze up. Since I felt so much like a loser regarding women, I also never had fun going out—it was just frustrating to see how other guys got the girls I always wanted in my life and to feel so powerless toward them. I came across the community and attended a number of seminars and workshops. At first, I was amazed that I could actually talk to an attractive woman with the stuff I learned. However, it never felt real, and with my inner beliefs not having changed at all, I somehow still blew it every time.

Consider where I am now. When I walk into a bar, I am the man—everybody is looking at me. Attractive women come over and talk to me, and I do not have to do anything. I had the sexual tension with one girl build up so high that when I finally kissed her in the parking lot, her knees got weak and she fell to the floor. With me having been surprised by that, I fell with her and we ended up making out frantically on the floor for about an hour, not caring about the people passing us a few feet away. On another occasion, a girl gave me a blowjob right in the bar, with other women noticing it and getting so turned on that they tried to loosen up their boyfriends, with no success. Or a girl fucking me on a couch out in a hotel hallway, with people being around a corner a few feet away waiting for the elevator. Or girls following me through the streets when I go shopping on Saturdays. And most importantly: I am having fun when I go out, and I am not frustrated any more as I used to be.

Looking back, I wonder myself how I got from where I was to where I am now. The most important piece is probably how I changed my inner beliefs. I went from believing that I would never get an attractive woman. That the women I got wanted me only for my business success and that I had to always treat them nicely. That women were only having sex with guys to make up for being treated so nicely. Now I believe something very different: That I am a great person to hang out with. That women are only waiting for a chance to get to know me. That many women want to have sex with me. That they will melt in my arms when they actually do. And most importantly: I do not care so much anymore what other people think, including very attractive women.

So, thank you, Cory, for helping me in achieving this huge change, and for continuing to coach me on my way to becoming an even better man.

~Chris, San Francisco