PART 6 - YOUR ENERGY IS YOUR REAL RESUME (AND ONE MAN’S STORY THAT PROVES IT)

PART 6 — YOUR ENERGY IS YOUR REAL RESUME (AND ONE MAN’S STORY THAT PROVES IT)

From “The Liberated Man Initiation” Mini Coaching Series

By Cory Skyy

INTRODUCTION

In the last part of this series, we explored identity — the inner blueprint shaping everything in your life.

But identity is only half the equation.

Because once you shift your inner story…
you must embody it.

Identity is the foundation.
Energy is the transmission.

Your energy is what people feel before you speak.
Before you move.
Before you introduce yourself.
Before you “do” anything.

Today, we’re diving into the truth most men never master:

Your energy is your real resume —
and the world responds to it instantly.

And then, I’m going to share a story of a man who embodied this shift…
and watched his entire dating life transform in one night.

Let’s dive in.

YOUR ENERGY SPEAKS BEFORE YOU DO

Here’s one of the most overlooked truths in a man’s life:

People respond to your energy long before they respond to your words.

Before you open your mouth…
before you shake a hand…
before you approach a woman…
before you walk into a room…

Your presence has already communicated who you are.

Women feel your confidence or your insecurity.
Men feel your groundedness or your chaos.
Opportunities feel your certainty or your hesitation.
Clients feel your alignment or your neediness.

The world feels your internal state — always.

This is why identity work is foundational…
but energy work is the embodiment of it.

Identity is the blueprint.
Energy is the broadcast.

You can memorize scripts.
You can learn techniques.
You can rehearse the perfect approach.
You can read all the self-help books you want.

But if your energy says:

“I don’t believe in myself…”
“I hope you like me…”
“I’m not enough…”
“I’m trying too hard…”
“Please don’t reject me…”

then the world will reflect exactly that back to you.

Energy cannot be faked.
But it can be transformed.

When your inner world is aligned…
your energy becomes magnetic.

Women lean in.
People trust you.
Conversations flow.
Opportunities multiply.
Friendships deepen.
You stop chasing — and things begin moving toward you ORGANICALLY.

Not because you’re doing more.
Because you’re being more.

And nothing demonstrates this better than the story you’re about to read.

A STORY ABOUT MASCULINE ENERGY THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING

A few years ago, I worked with a man —
let’s call him Luis.

Luis was a good man:
smart, disciplined, hardworking, well-liked.

But when it came to women?

He overthought everything.

He had the looks.
He had the lifestyle.
He had the desire.

What he didn’t have was internal belief.

Every time he approached a woman, his energy was shouting:

“I hope this works…”
“I hope I don’t mess up…”
“Please like me…”
“Don’t reject me…”
“Don’t embarrass me…”

He never said those words.

He didn’t have to.

Energy always communicates what words try to hide.

THE NIGHT EVERYTHING CHANGED

One evening, Luis went out with some friends.
He saw a beautiful woman at the bar —
the type of woman who normally would’ve frozen him in place.

But this night was different.

Earlier that day, we had a coaching session where I told him:

“Stop performing.
Stop trying.
Stand in your truth.
Shift from needing something
to offering something.”

And for the first time…
he truly let those words drop into his body.

So instead of approaching with fear…
instead of chasing validation…
instead of trying to impress…

He walked up to her with grounded masculine presence.

Calm.
Centered.
Relaxed.
Eyes soft, not desperate.
A man who needed nothing from her,
yet was open to everything.

No tension.
No rushing.
No outcome attachment.

He approached with the energy of:

“My life is already full.
I’m simply offering you a moment of presence.”

And brother…

She melted.

Her body language shifted instantly.
She leaned in.
She touched her hair.
She laughed effortlessly.
She held eye contact.
She opened — fully, naturally, without force.

It wasn’t his lines.
It wasn’t his technique.
It wasn’t strategy.

It was energy. It was his presence.

The next morning, I got a message from him:

“It wasn’t what I said.
It was who I was being.
I finally get it.”

Exactly.

ENERGY IS THE TRUTH BEHIND EVERYTHING

You can say the perfect line…
but if your energy is off, people feel it.

You can say something simple…
but if your energy is aligned, people feel that too —
and they respond.

Masculine energy isn’t loud.
It isn’t forceful.
It isn’t performance.
It isn’t hyperconfidence.

It is:

Grounded.
Certain.
Relaxed.
Rooted in self-respect and boundaries.
Rooted in truth.
Rooted in inner alignment.

When a man embodies this energy…
life stops resisting him
and starts reorganizing itself around him.

Jobs come easier.
Women lean in.
Opportunities appear.
Friendships deepen.
Conversations feel effortless.
Life becomes more flow than fight.

Not because he’s controlling anything —
but because he’s aligned with himself.

Identity creates the blueprint.
Energy brings it to life.

In Part 5, we dive into how to actually shift your energy
and step into the version of you who naturally attracts
everything you’ve been chasing.

Talk soon,
— Cory