ASK CORY
Do looks matter? Does it matter what type of car you drive or how much money you make? Do women like pick-up lines and/or routines? Can anyone become a ladies' man? Do you recommend I approach women? Does age matter? Am I too old to date college girls? Does my attitude and how I view myself affect my results? Will my past hold me back from being great with women? How do I get women to approach me? Will other parts of my life change, or is Cory’s program just about success with women? Is it possible to take a girl from a guy if you really like her? Can I be great with women if I am shy and introverted? How do you achieve such a state of self-confidence that you feel good even if a woman rejects you? What if my friends and/or family don't agree with what I am doing? If this is so simple, why isn't every guy a ladies' man?
Question: Do looks matter?
Answer: I am going to say yes and no. Looks matter, but not in the way guys typically think they do. Girls look at guys differently than guys look at girls. Guys appraise women for their physical beauty, noticing facial features, body, breasts, ass, etc. A lot of guys have this belief that beautiful women look at us the same way; they think that women are mainly attracted to that tall, GQ-model type of guy, but this is not the case. I mean, yeah sure she might find Mr. GQ attractive, but for women there is a lot more to male attractiveness than just being physically good-looking.
Attraction is not a choice, but being attractive is.
Women like guys who take good care of themselves, guys who are well-groomed and confident, guys who have goals and aspirations while at the same time have the "I don't give a F**K" attitude. Here's the thing: you don't have to look like Brad Pitt to take good care of yourself, and you don't have to look like Matthew McConaughey to be well-groomed and confident, and God knows anyone can have an "I don't give a F**K" attitude.
My point is that thinking you are not good-looking enough to have the women you truly desire is nothing more than a personal, limiting belief. In my Magnetic Mindset audio program, I explain how you can get rid of this limiting belief, along with how to develop a strong sexual confidence that is magnetic to women.
Question: Does it matter what type of car you drive or how much money you make?
Answer: Not at all! This is another huge misconception that many guys have. This is nothing more than the male ego working against you. Most of my life I was broke as a joke, but I was still going out with beautiful successful women all the time. If I didn't have gas money, I had her pick me up. If I had a really shitty apartment, I would spend more time with her out at the beach or at her place. I never let money stop me from having fun and living life to the fullest.
Question: Do women like pick up lines and or routines?
Answer: NO . . . treat women like you would like to be treated. You wouldn't like it if you had a ton of women you were not attracted to coming up to you saying all kinds of stupid pick-up lines, so don't do it with women. It's not natural, and it comes across as desperate.
Question: Can anyone become a ladies' man?
Answer: YES . . . all men posses a natural ability to attract and relate to women. This ability operates like a magnet-when it is clear and not blocked it is a powerful attractor. For a woman in the presence of a "clear" man, this attraction is not a choice, and anything is possible.
Question: Do you recommend I approach women?
Answer: Absolutely not. Why would you approach women when you can get them to approach you? The truth is that with the correct mindset, you can get women to approach you without saying a word.
Question: Does age matter? Am I too old to date college girls?
Answer: Many guys who are older have a lot of hang-ups about their age because of past experiences. Age only matters if you are uncomfortable with it. Learn to be comfortable with your age, and age becomes only a number-then a forty-six year-old dating a twenty-one-year-old is not an abnormal thing.
Question: Does my attitude and how I view myself affect my results?
Answer: Yes. The process to becoming great with women is actually not about women at all. It is all about how you view yourself and your attitude toward the world around you.
Question: Will my past hold me back from being great with women?
Answer: If you are ready to change and are willing to do everything it takes, then nothing can stop you, not even your past-though I won't lie and say that overcoming your past is always easy. Even if you apply my Magnetic Mindset program regularly, your past will fight you at times. How much it will fight you depends on your age and life experiences, but no matter your age or what you have been through, success with women is possible for everyone. For some it may just take a little longer.
Question: How do I get women to approach me?
Answer: There is no short answer for this, but it boils down to changing the way you think and the way you do things. That is the only difference between someone who is great with women and someone who is not.
Question: Will other parts of my life change, or is Cory's program just about women?
Answer: The process will influence every aspect of your life in a positive way because you are changing your entire belief system. The respect alone that you will get from family, friends, coworkers, etc. is worth every bit of the investment.
Question: Is it possible to take a girl from a guy if you really like her?
Answer: Yes... This is actually extremely easy when you are a sexually desirable guy, just about anything is possible but why would you want to be a home wrecker when there are more than enough single women out there?
Question: Can I be great with women if I am shy and introverted?
Answer: Yes. 95 percent of the guys I have worked with have been shy and introverted on some level. Being great with women does not mean that you have to be extremely extroverted and the most social guy in the venue. Being laid back and projecting a quiet confidence is also extremely attractive to women.
Question: How do you achieve such a state of self-confidence that you feel good even if a woman rejects you?
Answer: If you're applying my teaching, there is very little room to get rejected, because everything you will be doing will seem natural. You are not going to be approaching tons of women with the hopes that one will like you. That is not what I teach. One of the keys to my teaching is the "I don't give a F**K" attitude, and once you have developed this mindset if by some chance a girl does reject you it really won't matter-because you don't give a F**K. 
Question: What if my friends and/or family don't agree with what I am doing?
Answer: This can be a tough one for a lot of guys, but it's a common situation. Honestly, if your friends can't accept that you are trying to better yourself, then they do not deserve to be your friends. Your parents may not like it or accept it in the beginning, but this is not about them; this is about you making a decision as an adult to take control of your life. You may have to distance yourself from your parents while you're going through the process until you are strong enough to stand up for yourself. They will eventually come around; they are your parents, after all.
Question: If this is so simple, why isn't every guy a ladies' man?
Answer: There are several reasons for this. For one, it has never been taught before because no one really understood what it meant to be a true ladies' man. Second, the male ego typically does not allow a man to admit he has an issue with women; and third, not everyone is willing to change and/or do the simple things on a consistent basis that result in change.
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