The Number 1 Way to Eliminate Competition when Dating Local Women
Cory Skyy
“Cory, why do you spend so much time on Inner Game?”
My answer:
Because so-called Inner Game (or “Magnetic Mindset” as I like to call it) is the foundation of all your success not just with dating local women… but with life in general.
Our beliefs about something…whether it's being great with women, making a lot of money, or whatever…determine if we push that something away from us—or attract it TO us.
For example, I bet there was something when you were younger about which you said, “I could never do that!” But then slowly, as you learned whatever it was, you realized that you could indeed learn it. Your belief system changed. “I could never do that!” became “I can do that easy… no problem!”
Most guys, at some point, have believed that they can't be great with women. Sometimes they think there's no hope in dating local women, so they go to foreign countries or even get mail-order brides. It's just not necessary. Movies and television portray guys who are always nervous, tongue-tied, and klutzy when it's time to ask the hot girl to the prom. These images seep into our subconscious minds and eventually we believe this is how it is.
Not me. I didn't watch movies as a kid and it paid off. Nor did I ever say to myself, “I can't be great with women”. (When you start at 12, you skip that stage completely.) I had so much success right from the get-go that I never developed a belief that being with the hottest girls was difficult or even challenging.
In essence, what I did was create my “Magnetic Mindset” without even knowing what a “Magnetic Mindset” was. All I knew at the time was “go for it”.
(When you're twelve, you have very little competition. So, when you “go for it”, you get results like crazy.)
Then, when I got older, I learned that most guys didn't “go for it” when they were twelve. The reasons are different for every guy, but the results are pretty much the same: A mindset that caused them to say stuff to themselves like “She's so hot… she'd never be interested in me” or “I bet she'd laugh at me if I asked her out” or “I'm so nervous that I blush every time I see her” and a million other negative thoughts. This gets in the way of dating local, beautiful women. It can be so easy if you believe in yourself and let it all happen.
After years and years and years of this, it gets pretty well etched into your subconscious. In the back of your mind, you hear your own negative thoughts being “spoken” by your subconscious every day—often without even realizing it.
This is why I spend so much time on teaching a “Magnetic Mindset”. It is the one thing I've used since I was twelve that accounts for most of my success with women.
It is also the one thing that “The Community” doesn't properly know how to teach. When I saw some of the crazy opening lines and pickup routines being taught out there, I said to myself, “I have to get out there and show these guys how a true natural does it”.
Inner game, “Magnetic Mindset”, whatever you call it… our thoughts determine what happens to us. If we think we'll be unsuccessful with women, we will be. If we think we'll be great with women, we will be. So start working on your mindset today, be consistent, never give up and soon enough you'll be dating local, super-hot women that will have all the other guys wondering “how the hell does he do that?”
Cory has developed a mentoring program to teach and support guys on a regular basis as they go through the process of becoming great with women. CLICK HERE TO READ MORE ABOUT THE CS MENTORING PROGRAM
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