In order to become great with anything in life you must start with the basics. 

This week, I'd like to share with you some basic “Don'ts” for meeting women: 

Don't use corny pick up lines, weird “routines”, or made up stories.  They're not necessary and it's just plain lame.

Don't talk about religion or politics when you first meet a girl. Nothing good can come out of this.  They are two of the most controversial topics out there and there is no point. 

Don't talk too much. Let her do most of the talking. Women love to talk, so let them.  

Don't feel like you need to prove anything to women.   You are the man, the “Prize”, so let her prove herself to you. 

Don't be afraid to disagree with her. This shows that you are a man and you are not afraid to voice your opinion.  It also makes it clear that you are not a push over. 

Don't refer to women as HOT. Instead, refer to them as CUTE. This will help you stay in control and help to eliminate all those beliefs that may cause anxiety (like “she is too HOT for me”). 

Don't answer the phone every time she calls and don't reply to every text message that she sends you throughout the day. Don't send corny pick up lines over text either, or corny lines trying to “hook” women.   And for some reason guys think that they need to drop everything when a cute girl calls that they just met. Remember that you have a life and women want to be part of your life—a part, but not your entire life. If you respond to her every time and jump when she says “Jump!”, then you are only communicating that you do not have a life. This comes across needy.  Needy is bad.

When she calls or sends you a text, look at your phone, smile and go about what you were doing.  Call or text her later.  This also allows you to think about a decent response.  

Don't be afraid to cancel on her.  Women do this all the time to guys just to see how we will react. Don't feel bad to do it right back to them. 

Don't tell her how beautiful she is over and over. If you want to give her a compliment, fine.  But make sure you don't over do it.  If you do compliment her, tell her that she has amazing eyes! In general, that's something women love to hear. 

Don't stare at her tits.  Have some respect for her.  If you want to look at tits, go home and look at porn.  Look her in her eyes when you are talking to her. Be there in the moment with her.  Show genuine interest in getting to know her. 

Don't be too nice. You will come across like a wuss-boy. Women want a man, a protector—not a stay-at-home mom. 

Don't lean in when you talk to her. That what nervous guys that use corny pick up lines do.  It doesn't matter how loud it is where ever you are.  Let her lean in to you.

Don't face her head on when you talk to her. Take up some space and always project yourself out to the largest part of the room or where the most people are. 

Don't try to be someone you're not.  Women will see right through you.  If she doesn't notice right away, she will see your true colors shine through eventually.   This especially applies to made up stories, weird or corny pick up lines, or “canned routines” from the seduction community.  Forget all of that crap.

Don't put down others to make yourself look better. I have had many friends in my past try to put me down just to make themselves look better to the girl I was talking to.  This doesn't do anything but make you look like an insecure and arrogant a**hole.. 

Don't talk about depressing things when you first meet a girl. She does not care how miserable your life is and will lose interest in you right away. 

Don't show off your hairy chest.  If you wear a button down shirt with the top couple buttons unbuttoned, it shows that you are comfortable with your body.  But it is trashy if you have a hairy chest and is not attractive to women. Shave it! 

Don't call a girl a bitch just because she is a bitch to you. Just walk away and say to yourself, “It's her loss”. Don't stay there and try to talk to someone that is not interested in talking with you. Why? There is no point. 

Don't let women talk down to you or disrespect you. You are the man. Step up and act like one. 

Don't leave the house without looking into the mirror and confirming that you look good.

Women do.  Why not you? 

Don't try to come up with the perfect thing to say to women. Every woman is different and is going to act different to everything you say. If you find something that works for one girl, it is not guaranteed to work for the next.  

That's why guys that use all these complicated corny pick up lines, routines, and head games don't find the success they want. Women want to have a guy that they can really connect with.  Running lines and routines only prevents that from actually happening.

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